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Ajoite - Finding Joy, Love, Beauty & Acceptance Inside and Out
Ajoite, most often found as soft blue-green phantoms in crystals, radiates one of the sweetest, most loving and serene energies in the mineral kingdom. It brings calm and peace to our emotions while gently cleansing our hearts of sadness, anger and hurt. As a result, we experience greater levels of joy, love, acceptance, and compassion. And because it melds the heart and throat centers, we more easily express what's in our hearts. Ajoite helps us see beauty, love and joy both within and around us, no matter the circumstance. It moves us along our spiritual path allowing us to more easily link to the higher dimensions as well as to people we meet along our way. Truly a gift from nature for the heart.

All about Love Formula Set
Help with everything you need to improve all kinds of relationships.

Beech - For being critical and intolerant of others
Beech helps people who are critical of and over-sensitized to the shortcomings or mistakes of others. Their intolerance and high but rigid mental standards lead them to want to be alone - away from those with whom they find fault. They feel superior to others and become judgmental, arrogant, or unsympathetic. They are unable to make allowances for and see the good in others. They are lonely taskmasters who suffer much because of their high ideals.
Beech infuses the heart with compassion, humor and tolerance toward others, and advances the ability to see the good in them despite their imperfections.

Bixbite (Red Beryl) - Loving Intimate Relationships
Bixbite, a rare raspberry colored beryl, brings forth self-confidence, unconditional love, harmony, cooperation, and compatibility. It enhances intimate relationships, giving courage to make deep emotional commitments. People who are over-analytical or overcritical become more sensitive and feeling. Anxiety and tension lessen. This elixir kindles affectionate lasting love, assisting relationships to stay caring and supportive in difficult times. Helpful for relationship counseling, marriage and couple problems, and fear of intimacy in relationships.

Bleeding Heart - Over-Attachment in Relationships or Breakups
Bleeding Heart is for people who get so entangled and overly attached in love relationships that they become obsessive, possessive, or needy. It's a wonderful essence for breakups when individuals are heartbroken and can't let go. It helps them release the attachment so they can love unconditionally and restores a sense of peace and harmony to their heart.

Blue Tourmaline Fifth Chakra - Full Self-Expression, Communication
Blue Tourmaline (Indicolite) clears and activates the Fifth or Throat Chakra, which assists in all forms of expression and communication plus endowing the individual with a keen ability for full self-expression. This Elixir enhances the functioning of all the other chakras in this respect. When the Throat Chakra is blocked, the attributes of other Chakras are unable to fully articulate. This includes creativity, goal setting, emotions, feelings, love, caring, visions, ideas, inspiration, spiritual experience and inner guidance. Affirmations and mantras become more effective. We can stand up for ourselves. We also gain a greater interest in spiritual affairs, which is then aroused in others. Blue Tourmaline Elixir is especially potent when taken with Green Tourmaline Elixir. Let's express all aspects of ourselves.

Butterfly Iris - Coordinating Creative Inspiration in Group Endeavors
Butterfly Iris (Dietes iridioides) distinguishes itself from the true iris by growing in a large, round clump with many small iris flowers that last only for a day. All bushes, for miles around, bloom together and then stop in unison, just to begin blooming again simultaneously. This essence has all the creative inspiration of Iris flower essence, giving the added ability to work harmoniously in groups. Butterfly Iris heightens and aligns the creative energy for collaborations, meetings, gatherings, and conferences. It's valuable when the people collaborating are in different cities, states or countries and are using the Internet or telephone to realize creative projects together. Another interesting asset that this essence bestows is the ability to attune and align to current trends in society and the world.

Butterfly Rose - Soul Travel & Sublime Creativity
The blooms of Rosa chinensis mutabilis, or Butterfly Rose, float enchantingly above the greenery, bobbing in the breezes. As they mature, the flowers change from copper-yellow to pink to crimson, looking a bit like many-colored butterflies. As an essence, this rose lifts one's consciousness beyond the physical plane into higher realms of creativity and experience. It enhances sublime artistic expression, extraordinary dream states, astral projection, and foremost, soul travel. The physical body relaxes to more easily attain these higher realms. This essence also spiritualizes sexuality supporting experiences of mystical union.

Cacao - Sensitivity/Psychic Abilities/Chocolate Cravings
Cacao, the chocolate plant, a favorite of the world, has a unique, benevolent effect as a flower essence. It increases general sensitivity. When we improve oursensitivity, we can better feel, intuit, empathize with, and psychically understand people and situations. Also sensitivity is an important component of both love and sexual intimacy. To tune in to the feeling of things, people need to be relaxed and unclouded. And Cacao does just that, by both reducing stress and improving mental clarity. Also as an aside, it helps to allay addictive chocolate cravings. It's a valuable adjunct for those in the helping and healing professions, and for people who want to better attune together for common goals or better relationships. This remedy can benefit anyone who wants to be more caring, sensitive, intuitive, or psychic and be able to more clearly read, comprehend or aid people, relationships or circumstances.

Cantu - Kindling Joy, Ecstasy, Happiness, and Serendipity
Cantu, the national flower of both Peru and Bolivia, is considered to be imbued with the attributes of the hummingbird. As a flower essence, Cantu powerfully opens and frees the heart and expression, enhancing joy, happiness, harmony, ecstasy and serendipity. It also improves flexibility and movement in the body. It works magic for dancing, traveling, relationships, and marriage. It's immensely helpful for depression, addiction recovery and chronic or terminal illness. Let the inner child play!

Centaury - For being anxious to please and having difficulty in saying no
Centaury people are gentle, kind, and eager to please, and they overtax themselves in this way. They have a hard time saying no, and often neglect their own needs and mission in life to serve others. As a result, they tire easily and often lack energy. They may become bound to dominating people, such as parents or other family members (see Chicory). As they are so easily influenced, their thoughts and actions are often colored by the ideas and dictates of others.
Centaury strengthens the will and individuality of service-oriented people, so they can say yes to their own needs and mission in life.

Chamomile - State of Calm and Harmony
Chamomile has for centuries been used as a tea to promote relaxation. As a flower essence, it calms the mind, emotions, and nervous system. It encourages a relaxed harmonious state, improving the ability to study, meditate, or sleep. If emotions run high or there is conflict, chamomile will quickly bring peace and harmony to the situation.

Chicory - For being over-protective, selfish, and possessive in showing love
Chicory people are full of caring and concern for their families and friends, but are also self-centered and possessive. Being strong-willed, they expect those near and dear to conform to their values and demands. They want them close by, while criticizing, correcting, and arguing with them. They easily feel rejected if someone stands up to them or contradicts their demands. They will feign illness to gain attention. They often speak about the duty owed to them, and have difficulty giving without expecting something in return. Chicory parents often produce Centaury children who cannot say no or break away from their grip.
Chicory increases the feeling of assurance that one is worthy of being loved. Demands and nagging give way to selfless giving and concern, as well as the experience that giving freely of one's attention leads to receiving attention freely from others.

Color Elixir Green, both master color and fulcrum of the colors, has universal appeal. It is cooling, and stimulates life, growth, harmony, cooperation, friendship, happiness, appreciation, and a sense of balance. Green raises the vibrations of the body above the vibration of dis-ease and brings forth self-healing, recovery, and renewal. It opens the heart chakra at the center of the chest and stimulates its associated gland, the thymus.

Color Elixir Pink, ever a favorite, is about loving, being loved and universal love. It draws more love to one and helps one feel more loving. It balances emotions and soothes and relaxes either over- or under-emotional states. The color pink has been proven to reduce violence in people. It heals misunderstandings and cleavages, improves harmony and stimulates the heart chakra.

Colors of the Heart Set
These color elixirs encourage love and harmony toward one another.

Ego Less I Formula
Ego Less I is the first of two formulas to help build a bridge that integrates the higher self with the ego. Unresolved dilemmas create a false identity, interfering with the ability to connect with and act from the divine nature. Facades and pretense of the insecure personality react to other people's games, ploys and issues, generating confusion and misunderstanding in relationships and situations. Fears, anxiety, guilt, shame, anger, mistrust and hostile projection all fuel the false self's defense system, while it tries to protect its hurt, sensitive areas. The Ego Less I formula assists the resolution of these painful emotions and insecurities, helping to release and unlayer them step by step. It provides crystal clear objectivity to surrender and heal these in a calm, detached manner. The strengths of the greater self: courage, acceptance, self-esteem, forgiveness, trust, and loving inclusion of others, increase and help dispel the need of the ego to go on the defensive. Instead it can relinquish to authenticity. The spiritual qualities begin to radiate more and more: peace, love, happiness, kindness, self-worth, and embracing others, while being compassionate and non reactive in the face of others' pain, masks and uncertainties. What a relief, when the ego and higher self are able to come together and work for the same goal of illumination. It's highly recommended to go on to the second formula Ego Less II once finished with this first one.
Ingredients: Chiastolite, Natrolite, Peony, Tree Anemone, Larkspur, Garlic, Oregon Grape, Pine, Borage, Ajoite, Sagebrush

Ego Less I1 Formula
Ego Less II continues the work of Ego Less I to strengthen the bridge between the higher self and personality, by clearing the fear, anxiety, guilt, anger, masks, reactivity and projection of the hurt ego. A more authentic self is born. Crystal clear objectivity, courage, acceptance, self-esteem, trust and forgiveness continue to improve. Now deeper cleansing occurs of emotional debris associated with tears and other more deeply hidden issues, that need to be processed layer by layer. Beneath is the sweet core, the divine nature. Clarity and positive emotional outlook increase. The ego further cooperates with the greater self. Emotional confusion and personal belief systems are set aside to clearly channel spiritual information and inner guidance. Wisdom, love and harmony prevail. Egoistic concerns dissipate as the ability to stay with higher states of consciousness grows. Do yourself a big favor and take Ego Less I and Ego Less II sequentially. They work well with Presence, Thanksgiving, or Lucid Perception, and also as a precursor, for Rainbow Body.
Ingredients: Chistolite, Natrolite, Peony, Tree Anemone, Larkspur, Garlic, Onion, Oregon Grape, Pine, Borage, Ajoite, Sagebursh, Liveforever, Pink Dombeya, Madrone

Erythrite - Cultivate Insight, Higher Visions, Dreams, Harmony with Others
Erythrite forms crystals from pink to deep purple in color. Its value lies in its ability to open both heart and brow chakras and balance them together. It powerfully stimulates and harmonizes insight, higher visions, the dream state, and the ability to interpret dreams. At the same time, interactions with others flow more easily as the love of the heart blends with a higher point of view. This elixir brings forth compassion and the ability to see the best in people and situations. Erythrite elixir can be used in a number of ways: to bring discernment and harmony in relationships, and to cultivate higher visions, insight into issues and clarity and understanding of dreams.*
*Note: The elixir was made through the double container method.

Forgiveness Formula
Do yourself a favor, and forgive yourself and others! This formula eases a load of stress from the emotions, mental outlook and body. Guilt and shame over mistakes and shortcomings as well as being too hard on oneself turns into self-acceptance, self-forgiveness and joy. Resentment, feeling bitter, complaining, blaming or criticizing others shifts into forgiveness and acceptance. One sees through people's problems and defenses to truly enjoy and appreciate the goodness that is there. What a relief. What an uplift. What a heart opener.

Green Tourmaline Fourth Chakra - Love, Compassion, Confidence, Harmony
Green Tourmaline (Verdelite) cleanses and awakens the Fourth or Heart Chakra, which then assists to expand the energy field. Grief, anger, criticism, resentment, low self-esteem and lack of appreciation all stem from a blockage in the Heart. This Elixir increases unconditional love, compassion, courage, confidence and stamina. People harmonize their affairs and resonate with others, Nature and all living beings. Perception and viewpoints become more spiritual. The Heart Chakra when opened is the great balancer, helping to align all the other Chakras as well as the Yin/Yang forces. Use this Elixir liberally to enhance harmony and share the Love.

Happy Family Formula
Increase emotional bonding and balance in the family. Furthers happiness, inner security, self-esteem, courtesy, humor, harmony and appreciation for everyone in the family.

Happy Family Formula Set
Get help for everyone in the family every which way with four formulas.

Happy Parent Formula
Assistance for parents to advance emotional bonding and balance, as well as inner security, patience, understanding, harmony, courtesy, optimism, humor, and appreciation for your child and his/her gifts.

Hibiscus - Woman's Remedy: Frigidity, Sexual Repression
Hibiscus helps those women who are sexually frigid or repressed for any reason, such as from upbringing, past abuse or exploitation. This essence clears blockages in the flow of sexual energy so sexual feelings can be experienced and enjoyed. It is useful with sex therapy and tantric exercises.

Holly - For hatred, envy, jealousy, or suspicion
Holly helps people who are attacked by thoughts of hatred, envy, jealousy, or suspicion. Such people can be bad-tempered and hard-hearted, aggressive and vengeful, or even cruel or violent. They lack the ability to love, and often feel a generalized anger toward others. They suffer much for no apparent reason, and deep down may feel insecure and unlovable. Children jealous of their siblings can often benefit from this remedy.
Holly opens the heart to unconditional love and compassion, inspiring one to generosity and the ability to truly enjoy others' success.

Illumined Integration Formula
This dynamic combination of new millennium mineral elixirs plus is a most alchemical formula and amplifies, links, and integrates all levels of inner being, personality and body together to bring wholeness, harmony, healing, creation and illumination. It increases ground and creative forces, focuses intent and ability to manifest, and expands the heart, higher consciousness, and psychic faculties. It connects us to a sense of true inner home with a destiny to fulfill while on planet Earth. Kundalini rises, aging slows while the whole subtle anatomy, including the twelve chakras, seven subtle bodies and all the meridians and nadis, is amplified and aligned. The DNA evolves into twelve strands. Protection increases from EMF, WiFi, microwaves, pollution, toxins and negative thought forms. Lightworkers, indigos, crystallines, starseeds, and those firmly on the spiritual path will enjoy the alchemy.

Impatiens - For impatience and irritability
Impatiens is for those who are quick in thought and action. Such people like everything to be done rapidly and become irritated and intolerant of slower-paced individuals and situations. They prefer to work alone so that they can maintain their fast pace. They hate to waste time and tend to be tense, with a temper that flares easily but just as soon dies down. Their hastiness may lead them to be accident-prone. Impatiens is an excellent remedy for parents and teachers.
Impatiens increases patience and tolerance for the slow pace of people and situations, and it helps one to be efficient yet relaxed and to remain calm when irritated.

Joshua Tree - Break Free of Family & Cultural Patterns/True Self-Identity
Joshua Tree helps people break free from the dysfunction of family, generational, religious or cultural patterns, such as alcoholism, addiction, gambling, depression, violence, rigid beliefs or hereditary illnesses. This also includes the loss of their individual identity or freedom because of lack of insight regarding these familial and cultural influences. This flower essence helps to establish a true self-identity filled with courage and inner strength as well as being able to express a vibrant healthy individuality, beyond family and cultural conditioning. With this new freedom, people are able to gain more compassion and a better understanding about their history, heritage, and familial and cultural roots. Works well with Pineapple Lily.

Larkspur - Positive Attitude, Cooperation, Leadership Skills
Larkspur (Delphinium) is a universal balancer for people, and also as a balancer for remedy combinations. It creates a positive mental attitude, increasing charisma, courtesy, altruism, cooperation, enthusiasm, and humor. It develops leadership abilities, helping to inspire others without being domineering or aggrandizing.

Loving Relations Formula
Are you having difficulties with your spouse, partner, friend, family members or other loved ones? This mixture dissipates impatience, irritability, arguments, resentment, reactions to the other's issues or ideas, feeling discouraged or confused, or wanting to give up. It restores the loving bond by fostering patience, forgiveness, nonreactivity, flexibility, and the ability to listen to the other's viewpoint. Enjoy more positive, joyful, loving communication and gracious interaction.

Luculia - Compassion & Forgiveness
This small beautiful tree with scented pink tubular flowers, is native to the Himalayas. It is a master flower essence to open to the divine heart and increase unconditional love, greatly easing anger and resentment. It brings forth forgiveness for both oneself and others and fosters compassion and kindness toward self and all. This is a wonderful treatment to advance spiritual growth, and to bring further clarity and enhancement to psychic and spiritual gifts and readings.

Madrone - Universal Wisdom & Harmony
Madrone is a beautiful tree with glossy dark green leaves and white urn-shaped flowers that contrast nicely with its rich reddish bark. The flower essence gives us access to universal wisdom, aligned with the heart. This understanding doesn't come through the mental body or in words, but as a direct experience accompanied by deep peace and divine presence. There is a sense of connection and harmony with all living beings. It's of great benefit for all problem solving and relationship concerns. Meditation is deep and full with easy contact to the Source of All. One is able to take everyone and everything into consideration to find the highest truth for situations. Consider applying it with ecology, farming, working with people in any situation or profession, social action for the Planet, or in personal spiritual practice. Use it often and liberally.

Mariposa Lily - Feeling Unloved, Unlovable or Alienated from Others
Mariposa Lily is focused around feeling unloved or unlovable, feeling abandoned or alienated by family members or other people, or feeling unable to emotionally connect to others. Oftentimes these feelings stem from unhappy childhood experiences such as birth trauma, parental abuse or neglect, or extended hospital stays. Other incidences may include betrayal by or loss of a loved one. Those suffering from these wounds have survived by blocking heartbreak or emotional pain. This essence heals the heart and awakens positive feelings. It allows people to appreciate and emotionally bond with others and take pleasure in human company again. Mariposa Lily gives splendid support for parent-child bonding, rebirthing, psychotherapy, and addiction recovery.

Milkmaids - An Open Loving Nature/Healing the Emotional Heart
Milkmaids, a sweet enchanting little flower, glows brightly in the moist shady banks of Oak Woodlands. It uplifts our hearts, improving acceptance and self-esteem. Gently it heals emotional trauma to the heart, removing grief, anger, and judgments, while restoring an open, loving nature. Excellent for children, parents, relationship difficulties, divorce, loss, inner child work and psychotherapy, it works well with Borage, Mariposa Lily or Rose Cactus

Mimulus - For fear of known things and for shyness
Mimulus is an aid for all the fears people know about and can name: dogs, snakes, tests, heights, pain, cold, insects, poverty, accidents, other people, death, the dark, public speaking, doctor appointments, social gatherings, and so on. Mimulus people are shy and may stammer, fidget, blush easily, or laugh nervously. They procrastinate to avoid the things they're afraid of, and keep their fears to themselves. This remedy is useful after accidents or during convalescence, to help people resume their normal activities. It helps timid sensitive children to be more assertive and secure.
Mimulus increase the ability to face and move through fears with courage, self-assurance, and equanimity.

Number 3 - Expression/Imagination/Sociability
Stimulate your imagination, humor, and creative expression! Amplify your ability to write, speak, and communicate your creativity, dreams and ideas. Enhance your sociability and experience of traveling.

Number 33 - Master Teacher/Universal Love & Service
Combine sympathy, harmony, and selflessness with a flare for magnetic creative communication. Improve your counseling and teaching skills. Cultivate a selfless concern for the welfare of others and also leadership abilities in the realm of service to humanity.

Number 66 - Charismatic Communicator/Great-Hearted Expression
Increase loving, joyous expression and magnetism. Become more generous and compassionate and fulfill your responsibilities to others in a joyful creative manner. This elixir supports healers, counselors, speakers, and artists working for the greater good. Be a ray of sunshine in the gloom.

Numbers of Love Set
These number elixirs improve receptivity, cooperation, caring, and being magnetic to love.

Opening to Love Formula
Do you want a relationship but feel plagued with fears, low confidence or problems communicating? This formula helps you clear fears around being intimate and overcomes most any issue interfering with creating personal relationships. Find the courage, self-confidence, and inner security to make contact, make conversation, and become more attentive. Get in touch with your genuine self and connect with those you find appealing and those who are attracted to you.

Oregon Grape - From Mistrust & Hostile Projection to Trust & Loving Inclusion
Oregon Grape is an attractive evergreen shrub with shiny spiny leaflets and dense clusters of gold yellow flowers which are followed by bluish black berries. The flower essence clears distrust of others, that's coupled with hostile projections and paranoid or defensive behavior. Thoughts are congested with irrational ideas of what others are thinking, and may include internal arguments or suspicious imaginings. Oregon Grape opens the heart, helping people to let go of mistrust and reel in untrue projections. It fosters loving inclusion, being able to warm up to people to trust again and giving them the benefit of the doubt. Most of us experience this at one time or another or in a certain part of our personality. It is a good remedy to open our hearts and foster mental clarity, so we can perceive and embrace the goodness of those around us. Very helpful for abuse victims and survivors.

Oval-Leaf Buckwheat - Withdrawn from People, Group Harmony
Oval-Leaf Buckwheat (Eriogonum) forms dense mats of soft gray green leaves with round masses of white to pink flowers. The flower essence helps those who withdraw, set themselves apart, or feel isolated from other people as a protective mechanism. There may be fear, criticalness, or past trauma. It improves self-esteem and unconditional love, helping people discover what there is to share in common and so live harmoniously together and enjoy a feeling of closeness in family, group, or community.

Paradigm Shift Formula
Clear out the old and bring in the new! Cleanse old identities and dysfunctional patterns related to familial, generational, religious and cultural upbringing. Establish a true self-identity filled with courage, inner strength, vibrant individuality, and compassionate understanding about your roots. Then help give birth to a new and healed paradigm based on cooperation and co-creation for the greater good. This new paradigm of love, harmony, healing, cooperation and unity emerges along with a deep desire to express and share it in relationships, family, community, culture, and at a global level. Quicken and enhance your experience and participation in the positive planetary transformation happening now!

Penstemon - Persistence in Relationship Difficulties, Clearing Sexual Inhibitions
Penstemon helps people having difficulty with a relationship. They have become impatient, discouraged or want to withdraw from the situation because there are too many problems. This remedy increases patience, persistence, and the confidence to move through the obstacles and find resolution. It also removes sexual inhibitions so that people can become physically closer.

Petunia - Behavioral Problems
Petunia is useful for difficult behavioral problems in children, the elderly, and animals. They may be resistant, mischievous, hyperactive, overly logical, or stubborn. This essence helps them calmly examine and balance their priorities from a higher perspective, allowing them to reassess their behavior. They become more willing to see the validity of others' viewpoints and more able to adapt.

Pineapple Lily - Birthing a New Healed Paradigm for the Collective
Pineapple Lily helps people birth a new and healed paradigm based on cooperation and co-creation, for themselves and for their relationship to others and the collective. It clears and transforms familial, cultural, national, and planetary patterns in people, those issues which bring hardship and difficulties to a group. New understanding, compassion, and methods to cooperate and increase harmony emerge along with a deep desire to express and share them with others, in the family, in the community, in the culture, or even at a global level, for the planet. People see the bigger picture, and their relationship to the whole and to the destiny of the collective. They find ways to help create a transformed paradigm based on love, harmony, healing, cooperation and unity. This is an exceptional flower essence for those with high ideals and who are involved in positive social, community, collective, and global action and change. Works well with Joshua Tree, Butterfly Iris, Cosmos, Desert Plume, Larkspur, and Pride of Madeira.

Pink Monkeyflower - Courage to Express Feelings
All the monkeyflowers (the genus Mimulus) work with fear while the color of their blooms allude to which kind. Dr Bach's Mimulus is yellow and gives courage and confidence to overcome mental fears. Pink Monkeyflower is for fear of feeling vulnerable to, or of being rejected for, showing or expressing one's emotions. Culturally men are often conditioned to not reveal how they feel, for fear of being ridiculed or accused of being weak. Past abuse or trauma can set up people, regardless of gender, to hide their emotional pain. And then too, people will typically hide their feelings of shame, guilt or unworthiness. At times, people put on a tough exterior to mask these fears. This essence gives courage and confidence to be emotionally honest and take emotional risks with others. It relieves the internal pressure that can come from holding back one's real feelings. People come to realize the strength there is in expressing their feelings in appropriate ways and situations.

Pink Yarrow - Protection from Negative Emotional Energy and Emotional Enmeshment
Pink Yarrow helps empathic and overly sympathetic people who are sensitized to the negative emotional states of others or become emotionally enmeshed in the emotional drama of others. This essence strengthens the energy field and breaks the link to any emotional confusion in the surrounding environment. It helps one to create emotional boundaries, and is especially useful for counselors, psych technicians, and those working with the mentally ill. Use as a spray to atomize about the room or body.

Pussy Paws - Sensitivity, Compassion, the Soft Touch
Pussy Paws are soft pink clusters of densely packed flowers, whose essence imparts a kind, gentle and sensitive nature; it gives the soft touch. People become more sensitive and compassionate toward others' pain, struggles or shortcomings. People who have become hardened for any reason can benefit, as can nurses, caregivers, psychotherapists, and massage therapists. This essence can also be used to enhance sensuous and sensual touching for cuddling, foreplay and lovemaking.

Quantum Networking Formula
Link up with people in mutual appreciation! Improve your confidence, magnetism, and inspired expression in groups. Ease any self-consciousness, nervousness, or feeling of being rejected.

Red-Pink Tourmaline Second Chakra - Creativity, Sexuality, Intimacy
Red-Pink Tourmaline (Rubellite) clears, activates, and elevates the Second or Sacral Chakra, drawing it closer to the Heart. This Elixir stimulates creativity, initiative, sexual drive, and the ability to be intimate with another. Sexuality becomes more sensitive. Creative passion is cultivated. Frustration eases. There is a balance between being too aggressive or too passive, so we become assertive without being overbearing. And emotional balance improves. With Rubellite Elixir, we can realize our artistic urges as well as desires for harmonious sexual intimacy. We fulfill the wishes of our heart with the help of an open and balanced Second Chakra.

Rose Cactus - Heals Past Trauma of the Heart to Love & Trust Again
Rose Cactus appears as a small tree with leaves. Hidden behind them on the trunk are long sharp spines. As a flower essence, it works with blocks, grief and any kind of past wounds, hurts, or abuse to the emotional heart, including from past lives. It soothes, heals and restores peace, harmony, and balance to the heart and emotions, so one can openly love, enjoy and trust people and life again. Works well with Star of Bethlehem and Mariposa Lily.

Shrimp Plant - Improving Family and Interpersonal Relationships
Shrimp Plant helps those who are having difficulty in family and interpersonal relationships. There may be fear, frustration, lying, withdrawal, crazy-making ploys, lost or stifled communication, or family dysfunction. This essence helps people clarify their motives to understand their own behavior. They learn to get along by opening their heart towards the other and seeking ways to reach across the gap. Communication, compassion, and understanding of the other's viewpoint improve, as well as the desire to find ways to make things work. Shrimp Plant is very useful for family and relationship counseling and therapies.

Siberian Cedar - Bond Spiritual/Physical Natures, Connect to all Living Beings, Longevity
Siberian Cedar, made popular by the Anastasia books, is one of the most powerful essences for this time in order to connect Spirit & Nature, harmonizing people's spiritual and physical facets. This flower essence grounds spiritual awareness and energy into the body, improving alertness in the present moment as well as strengthening the body's life force and stimulating rejuvenation. The heart opens, fostering unconditional love and harmony with people and all living beings. This remedy is excellent for re-establishing and strengthening one's relationship to Nature, plants, and animals, and is an exception aid to enhance nature walks, hiking, surfing, gardening, farming, animal husbandry, and learning to live rurally or in community.

Social Action and Change Formula
Clear out the old and bring in the new! Cleanse old identities and dysfunctional patterns related to familial, generational, religious and cultural upbringing. Establish a true self-identity filled with courage, inner strength, vibrant individuality, and compassionate understanding about your roots. Then help give birth to a new and healed paradigm based on cooperation and co-creation for the greater good. This new paradigm of love, harmony, healing, cooperation and unity emerges along with a deep desire to express and share it in relationships, family, community, culture, and at a global level. Quicken and enhance your experience and participation in the positive planetary transformation happening now!

Smithsonite - Fear of Intimacy, Instill Security, Confidence, Harmony in Relations
Smithsonite comes in an array of tranquil and soothing pastel shades, most often pink, teal or lavender. It markedly alleviates fears related to intimacy and interpersonal relationships, and also to the inability to establish such personal relations. The elixir gently releases old emotional wounds and childhood trauma and conflicts. It instills a sense of peace, inner security, self-confidence and compassion to be able to accept and give love. Smithsonite elixir begets harmony and the willingness to commit in intimate relationships. Enjoy!

Star Clusters - Realizing Authentic Self & Unity with Others
Star Clusters bestows the realization of humanity's essential nature, as beings of loving light linked together, remarkable radiant stars interconnected in love. With this understanding, people live together in harmony for the Greater Good, no matter the place, position, situation, or circumstance. This flower essence liberates from the illusion that individuals are separate, helpless and alone. It gives courage to release emotions, heart pain, and perceptual blocks that interfere with the experience of unity. It relinquishes egocentric concerns and insecurities so that people can truly accept and appreciate themselves and embrace the gifts and goodness of others. Ultimately Star Clusters helps people find their own authentic position in the grand scheme of things while enjoying others to create in love, harmony and gratitude.

Sticky Monkeyflower - Fear of Sexual Intimacy
Sticky Monkeyflower assists those who are afraid of sexual intimacy. This essence helps to overcome the repression of sexual feelings or fear of sex or the sex act. It increases courage to face and vanquish these fears, enabling people to enjoy sexual feelings and express them with loved ones. Sticky Monkeyflower is useful with sex therapy and tantric exercises.

Strawberry Ball Dombeya - Inspired Sexual Intimacy & Tantra
This large tree has huge appealing strawberry-color clusters of flowers that hang down, beckoning us to touch them. This essence is full of sensuality, creative joy, and spiritual inspiration. It uplifts sexuality and intimate relations to a love-filled and inspired event. Used with Tantra, Taoist sexual yoga and such, it allows a couple to explore and release karmic or emotional issues in their relationship, and draws them into a more joyful, loving and unified expression together.

Sweet Pea - Antisocial Behavior, Irresponsibility
Sweet Pea helps those who rebel against authority, exhibit antisocial behavior, or are irresponsible. It's especially helpful for those children and teenagers who are defiant or insensitive to the social context or consequences of their behavior. This essence improves a sense of social commitment and responsibility, drawing people out of their own world so that they become aware of the community of people around them and desire to involve themselves.

Sweet William - Reviving Joviality and Joyful Expression
Sweet William is a universal flower essence that everyone can enjoy. It uplifts the mood, increasing optimism and joyful, happy, heartfelt expression. It will dispel any mental or emotional state that interferes with joviality or being joyously present. Such states include grief, wallowing, sulking, sarcasm, and depression. This essence can be used for emotional release therapies or when people are facing difficult or painful circumstances, to help reinstate a positive optimistic state.

Vervain - For straining and being overzealous and overenthusiastic
Vervain types are passionate about their ideas and opinions and want to convert and persuade all those around them to their own views of life. With zeal, strong will and great courage of their convictions, they rally around causes to redress injustice, sometimes to an extreme point. Their great energy creates tension in their body, and they may have difficulty relaxing or falling asleep. They exhaust themselves with unnecessary effort and over enthusiasm. They can be irritable, frustrated, and annoyed over matters of principle.
Vervain helps to broaden the mind about life and its events. It helps people with strong convictions to accomplish their goals without straining and to attract allies to their cause by being more tolerant of others' opinions.

Vine - For being domineering and inflexible
Vine people are ambitious, capable and gifted. They feel sure of their abilities and confident of their success. They crave power and authority and enjoy directing people, but they can lack sensitivity or sympathy for others' feelings or viewpoints. They can become aggressive and tyrannical in demanding obedience, and can be cruel and ruthless to gain power to meet their ends and to convince others to their way of thinking. The class bully, the political dictator and parents or bosses who rule with an iron rod are such extreme examples of this type.
Vine helps ambitious, capable, and confident people to relax, be flexible and become open and sensitive to others' feelings and ideas. Then such people may become true leaders, inspiring and guiding others.

Watermelon Tourmaline Catalyst - Spiritual Heart, Joy, Diplomacy, Relationships
Watermelon Tourmaline is a most appealing gemstone with a pink core ringed by green. This combination and pattern of Pink and Green Tourmalines together amplify and synergize each other's energies. The Elixir powerfully activates and spiritualizes the Heart Chakra and links it to the Higher Self. Immense joy, harmony and positive energy are its hallmarks. It fosters compassion, patience and empathy, while significantly improving tact, diplomacy and reconciliation. Ruptures in relationships can heal. We're able to look past old issues and hurts with others to discover goodness, beauty and humor. Use Watermelon Tourmaline freely to liberate the spiritual heart, joy in life, and harmony with others.
(Note: Watermelon Tourmaline acts as a catalyst for all the other Tourmalines, galvanizing their piezoelectric properties and greatly enhancing their effectiveness.)

Whirling Butterflies - Releasing Resistance and Accepting Change
Whirling Butterflies is a very important and timely essence for what's occurring on the planet at this time. With so much change coming more and more rapidly, it can become difficult to handle these ever increasing shifts. This sets up resistance in us and we want things to slow down, be more stable, and be more like they used to be. This essence helps us to adapt to this acceleration and overcomes the antagonism to the rapid change and to change in general. It helps us accept and allow all things present and presented. We release our opposition to what is being presented and learn to relax, be at peace, and move, work and flow with the moment. We surrender to the Spirit and learn to trust and have faith in what is happening. We realize that, through our higher nature, we have all that we need to deal with whatever comes our way. And ultimately it is for and increases our good and growth. Consider using with Impatiens, Willow, and the Abundance Attitude, Loving Relations, and Super Stress Relief Formulas.

Zinnia - Being Over-Serious, Increasing Laughter and Playfulness
Zinnia helps people contact the inner child to increase laughter, spontaneity, and playfulness. This essence helps those who are depressed, over-serious, or supersensitive, as well as parents, people with marital difficulties, or those with unfulfilled desires to have children. Zinnia helps people to lighten up and play more.

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