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All about Love Formula Set
Help with everything you need to improve all kinds of relationships.

BeechFor being critical and intolerant of others
Beech helps people who are critical of and over-sensitized to the shortcomings or mistakes of others. Their intolerance and high but rigid mental standards lead them to want to be alone – away from those with whom they find fault. They feel superior to others and become judgmental, arrogant, or unsympathetic. They are unable to make allowances for and see the good in others. They are lonely taskmasters who suffer much because of their high ideals.
Beech infuses the heart with compassion, humor and tolerance toward others, and advances the ability to see the good in them despite their imperfections.

California PeonyReleasing Facades, Being Real
California Peony is invaluable for the shedding of masks, fronts, facades, defenses, pretense, and false personas that plague humanity. It also helps stop people from being reactive to and annoyed by others’ facades. People can face things more realistically and communicate more honestly. There is a sense of relief and relaxation in being more real, along with a realization of the extra energy it has taken to keep up fronts or to react to the masks of others. California Peony works well for teenagers, for those leaving a group, or in psychotherapy to release defenses in order to liberate the authentic self.

ChicoryFor being over-protective, selfish, and possessive in showing love
Chicory people are full of caring and concern for their families and friends, but are also self-centered and possessive. Being strong-willed, they expect those near and dear to conform to their values and demands. They want them close by, while criticizing, correcting, and arguing with them. They easily feel rejected if someone stands up to them or contradicts their demands. They will feign illness to gain attention. They often speak about the duty owed to them, and have difficulty giving without expecting something in return. Chicory parents often produce Centaury children who cannot say no or break away from their grip.
Chicory increases the feeling of assurance that one is worthy of being loved. Demands and nagging give way to selfless giving and concern, as well as the experience that giving freely of one’s attention leads to receiving attention freely from others.

Color Elixir Green, both master color and fulcrum of the colors, has universal appeal. It is cooling, and stimulates life, growth, harmony, cooperation, friendship, happiness, appreciation, and a sense of balance. Green raises the vibrations of the body above the vibration of dis-ease and brings forth self-healing, recovery, and renewal. It opens the heart chakra at the center of the chest and stimulates its associated gland, the thymus.

Colors of the Heart Set
These color elixirs encourage love and harmony toward one another.

Ego Less I Formula
Ego Less I is the first of two formulas to help build a bridge that integrates the higher self with the ego. Unresolved dilemmas create a false identity, interfering with the ability to connect with and act from the divine nature. Facades and pretense of the insecure personality react to other people's games, ploys and issues, generating confusion and misunderstanding in relationships and situations. Fears, anxiety, guilt, shame, anger, mistrust and hostile projection all fuel the false self's defense system, while it tries to protect its hurt, sensitive areas. The Ego Less I formula assists the resolution of these painful emotions and insecurities, helping to release and unlayer them step by step. It provides crystal clear objectivity to surrender and heal these in a calm, detached manner. The strengths of the greater self: courage, acceptance, self-esteem, forgiveness, trust, and loving inclusion of others, increase and help dispel the need of the ego to go on the defensive. Instead it can relinquish to authenticity. The spiritual qualities begin to radiate more and more: peace, love, happiness, kindness, self-worth, and embracing others, while being compassionate and non reactive in the face of others' pain, masks and uncertainties. What a relief, when the ego and higher self are able to come together and work for the same goal of illumination. It's highly recommended to go on to the second formula Ego Less II once finished with this first one.
Ingredients: Chiastolite, Natrolite, Peony, Tree Anemone, Larkspur, Garlic, Oregon Grape, Pine, Borage, Ajoite, Sagebrush

Ego Less I1 Formula
Ego Less II continues the work of Ego Less I to strengthen the bridge between the higher self and personality, by clearing the fear, anxiety, guilt, anger, masks, reactivity and projection of the hurt ego. A more authentic self is born. Crystal clear objectivity, courage, acceptance, self-esteem, trust and forgiveness continue to improve. Now deeper cleansing occurs of emotional debris associated with tears and other more deeply hidden issues, that need to be processed layer by layer. Beneath is the sweet core, the divine nature. Clarity and positive emotional outlook increase. The ego further cooperates with the greater self. Emotional confusion and personal belief systems are set aside to clearly channel spiritual information and inner guidance. Wisdom, love and harmony prevail. Egoistic concerns dissipate as the ability to stay with higher states of consciousness grows. Do yourself a big favor and take Ego Less I and Ego Less II sequentially. They work well with Presence, Thanksgiving, or Lucid Perception, and also as a precursor, for Rainbow Body.
Ingredients: Chistolite, Natrolite, Peony, Tree Anemone, Larkspur, Garlic, Onion, Oregon Grape, Pine, Borage, Ajoite, Sagebursh, Liveforever, Pink Dombeya, Madrone

Forgiveness Formula
Do yourself a favor, and forgive yourself and others! This formula eases a load of stress from the emotions, mental outlook and body. Guilt and shame over mistakes and shortcomings as well as being too hard on oneself turns into self-acceptance, self-forgiveness and joy. Resentment, feeling bitter, complaining, blaming or criticizing others shifts into forgiveness and acceptance. One sees through people’s problems and defenses to truly enjoy and appreciate the goodness that is there. What a relief. What an uplift. What a heart opener.

Garlic - Release Hidden or Obvious Fears/Anger with Increased Objectivity
Garlic has been used for thousands of years as a condiment, insect repellent, immune support, and a way to ward off negative energies. As a flower essence, Garlic is a valuable universal remedy to clear all kinds of fear and anger, whether hidden or obvious. It allows people to become relaxed and mentally and emotionally objective in order to release anxiety, paranoia, stage fright, resentment, hostility, impatience and the like. Even if a person is afraid to let go of fears or anger still buried, Garlic flower essence gradually removes any insecurity so they can be faced and processed in a calm detached manner. The many layers of the garlic bulb signify its ability to quarry negative states and dispel them. Use this essence liberally for any type of fearful or angry state. Excellent in psychotherapy, ego clearing, negative thought form release, and spiritual work.

Green Tourmaline Fourth Chakra - Love, Compassion, Confidence, Harmony
Green Tourmaline (Verdelite) cleanses and awakens the Fourth or Heart Chakra, which then assists to expand the energy field. Grief, anger, criticism, resentment, low self-esteem and lack of appreciation all stem from a blockage in the Heart. This Elixir increases unconditional love, compassion, courage, confidence and stamina. People harmonize their affairs and resonate with others, Nature and all living beings. Perception and viewpoints become more spiritual. The Heart Chakra when opened is the great balancer, helping to align all the other Chakras as well as the Yin/Yang forces. Use this Elixir liberally to enhance harmony and share the Love.

Happy Family Formula
Increase emotional bonding and balance in the family. Furthers happiness, inner security, self-esteem, courtesy, humor, harmony and appreciation for everyone in the family.

Happy Family Formula Set
Get help for everyone in the family every which way with four formulas.

Happy Parent Formula
Assistance for parents to advance emotional bonding and balance, as well as inner security, patience, understanding, harmony, courtesy, optimism, humor, and appreciation for your child and his/her gifts.

ImpatiensFor impatience and irritability
Impatiens is for those who are quick in thought and action. Such people like everything to be done rapidly and become irritated and intolerant of slower-paced individuals and situations. They prefer to work alone so that they can maintain their fast pace. They hate to waste time and tend to be tense, with a temper that flares easily but just as soon dies down. Their hastiness may lead them to be accident-prone. Impatiens is an excellent remedy for parents and teachers.
Impatiens increases patience and tolerance for the slow pace of people and situations, and it helps one to be efficient yet relaxed and to remain calm when irritated.

Loving Relations Formula
Are you having difficulties with your spouse, partner, friend, family members or other loved ones? This mixture dissipates impatience, irritability, arguments, resentment, reactions to the other’s issues or ideas, feeling discouraged or confused, or wanting to give up. It restores the loving bond by fostering patience, forgiveness, nonreactivity, flexibility, and the ability to listen to the other’s viewpoint. Enjoy more positive, joyful, loving communication and gracious interaction.

Luculia - Compassion & Forgiveness
This small beautiful tree with scented pink tubular flowers, is native to the Himalayas. It is a master flower essence to open to the divine heart and increase unconditional love, greatly easing anger and resentment. It brings forth forgiveness for both oneself and others and fosters compassion and kindness toward self and all. This is a wonderful treatment to advance spiritual growth, and to bring further clarity and enhancement to psychic and spiritual gifts and readings.

Oregon Grape - From Mistrust & Hostile Projection to Trust & Loving Inclusion
Oregon Grape is an attractive evergreen shrub with shiny spiny leaflets and dense clusters of gold yellow flowers which are followed by bluish black berries. The flower essence clears distrust of others, that's coupled with hostile projections and paranoid or defensive behavior. Thoughts are congested with irrational ideas of what others are thinking, and may include internal arguments or suspicious imaginings. Oregon Grape opens the heart, helping people to let go of mistrust and reel in untrue projections. It fosters loving inclusion, being able to warm up to people to trust again and giving them the benefit of the doubt. Most of us experience this at one time or another or in a certain part of our personality. It is a good remedy to open our hearts and foster mental clarity, so we can perceive and embrace the goodness of those around us. Very helpful for abuse victims and survivors.

Oval-Leaf BuckwheatWithdrawn from People, Group Harmony
Oval-Leaf Buckwheat (Eriogonum) forms dense mats of soft gray green leaves with round masses of white to pink flowers. The flower essence helps those who withdraw, set themselves apart, or feel isolated from other people as a protective mechanism. There may be fear, criticalness, or past trauma. It improves self-esteem and unconditional love, helping people discover what there is to share in common and so live harmoniously together and enjoy a feeling of closeness in family, group, or community.

PeonyReleasing Facades, Being Real
Peony is invaluable for the shedding of masks, fronts, facades, defenses, pretense and false personas that plague humanity. It also helps stop people from being reactive to and annoyed by others’ facades. People can face things more realistically and communicate more honestly. There is a sense of relief and relaxation in being more real, along with a realization of the extra energy it takes to keep up a front or to react to the masks of others. Peony works well for teenagers, when leaving a group, or in psychotherapy to release defenses in order to liberate the authentic self.

Presence Formula
The present holds the key to life. And whatever is presented offers an opportunity to learn, grow and expand. Staying present is the gift to find solutions to questions and conundrums. The Presence Formula eases thoughts and emotions which distract from and interfere with attuning to the still inner voice always available now to resolve issues. This formula helps one stay centered and in the moment by clearing fear, worry, depression, negative outlooks, and resistance to what's happening. It increases tranquility, optimism, faith in Providence, and acceptance of what's given. It grants entrance to the power, love, light and wisdom within for support and elucidation. It keeps the attention in the moment to continually receive whatever is needed. A wonderful sense of being here and now arises so we're ever ready to face, solve, trust, enjoy and appreciate life to the fullest.
Ingredients: Filtered energized water, alcohol by 40% volume, Pink Ball Dombeya, Whirling Butterflies, Cantu, Beryllonite, Liveforever, Madrone

Pussy PawsSensitivity, Compassion, the Soft Touch
Pussy Paws are soft pink clusters of densely packed flowers, whose essence imparts a kind, gentle and sensitive nature; it gives the soft touch. People become more sensitive and compassionate toward others’ pain, struggles or shortcomings. People who have become hardened for any reason can benefit, as can nurses, caregivers, psychotherapists, and massage therapists. This essence can also be used to enhance sensuous and sensual touching for cuddling, foreplay and lovemaking.

Radiant Heart Formula
Open your heart to love. Boost self-esteem, self-acceptance, kindness, tolerance, understanding, love and acceptance of your own or others’ issues and shortcomings. This formula is very freeing, relaxing and harmonizing. Bring forth joy and appreciation for people and life!

Taiwan Flowering CherryPeace, Tranquility, Inner Silence
Taiwan Flowering Cherry has a unique ability to immediately impart a relaxed inner state of silence and tranquility. Thoughts and emotions quiet, and one can experience stillness which is often difficult to attain in the today’s world. This flower essence has any number of uses – for emotional trauma, mental tension, addiction recovery, meditation, contemplation, prayer, spiritual practice, and communing with nature. As an emotional rescue, it eases emotional pain and discomfort. For the mind, it stops distracting thoughts, worries, fears and anxiety. It brings people, past thought and emotion, to the threshold of a still inner awareness in which they can profoundly relax, recharge, renew and realize, and commune with a deeper truth inside. This flower essence can be taken daily to ease emotional and mental tension or the constant barrage of negative emotions and thoughts, so to directly feel calm and centered. Then people can access silence and tranquility within to find much needed insight and proper action for issues, situations and relationships.

VervainFor straining and being overzealous and overenthusiastic
Vervain types are passionate about their ideas and opinions and want to convert and persuade all those around them to their own views of life. With zeal, strong will and great courage of their convictions, they rally around causes to redress injustice, sometimes to an extreme point. Their great energy creates tension in their body, and they may have difficulty relaxing or falling asleep. They exhaust themselves with unnecessary effort and over enthusiasm. They can be irritable, frustrated, and annoyed over matters of principle.
Vervain helps to broaden the mind about life and its events. It helps people with strong convictions to accomplish their goals without straining and to attract allies to their cause by being more tolerant of others’ opinions.

VineFor being domineering and inflexible
Vine people are ambitious, capable and gifted. They feel sure of their abilities and confident of their success. They crave power and authority and enjoy directing people, but they can lack sensitivity or sympathy for others’ feelings or viewpoints. They can become aggressive and tyrannical in demanding obedience, and can be cruel and ruthless to gain power to meet their ends and to convince others to their way of thinking. The class bully, the political dictator and parents or bosses who rule with an iron rod are such extreme examples of this type. Vine helps ambitious, capable, and confident people to relax, be flexible and become open and sensitive to others’ feelings and ideas. Then such people may become true leaders, inspiring and guiding others.

Watermelon Tourmaline Catalyst - Spiritual Heart, Joy, Diplomacy, Relationships
Watermelon Tourmaline is a most appealing gemstone with a pink core ringed by green. This combination and pattern of Pink and Green Tourmalines together amplify and synergize each other's energies. The Elixir powerfully activates and spiritualizes the Heart Chakra and links it to the Higher Self. Immense joy, harmony and positive energy are its hallmarks. It fosters compassion, patience and empathy, while significantly improving tact, diplomacy and reconciliation. Ruptures in relationships can heal. We're able to look past old issues and hurts with others to discover goodness, beauty and humor. Use Watermelon Tourmaline freely to liberate the spiritual heart, joy in life, and harmony with others.
(Note: Watermelon Tourmaline acts as a catalyst for all the other Tourmalines, galvanizing their piezoelectric properties and greatly enhancing their effectiveness.)

Water VioletFor being aloof, independent, and preferring to be alone
Water Violet people are private individuals, often very advanced, capable and talented. They move quietly and gently through life, carrying on quite independently, free from the opinions of others. They don’t impose themselves on others, and prefer their own company or that of a few close friends. They appear aloof or even arrogant and condescending. They keep their troubles to themselves, preferring to withdraw behind a calm façade.
Water Violet assists capable, talented and independent persons to become more involved with humanity and to find joy and value in participating.

Whirling ButterfliesReleasing Resistance and Accepting Change
Whirling Butterflies is a very important and timely essence for what’s occurring on the planet at this time. With so much change coming more and more rapidly, it can become difficult to handle these ever increasing shifts. This sets up resistance in us and we want things to slow down, be more stable, and be more like they used to be. This essence helps us to adapt to this acceleration and overcomes the antagonism to the rapid change and to change in general. It helps us accept and allow all things present and presented. We release our opposition to what is being presented and learn to relax, be at peace, and move, work and flow with the moment. We surrender to the Spirit and learn to trust and have faith in what is happening. We realize that, through our higher nature, we have all that we need to deal with whatever comes our way. And ultimately it is for and increases our good and growth. Consider using with Impatiens, Willow, and the Abundance Attitude, Loving Relations, and Super Stress Relief Formulas.

Willow For resentment, complaining, and feeling that life has been unfair
Willow helps people who hold on to resentment, bitterness and self-pity. Such individuals feel that life has been unfair to them in some way and they haven’t deserved such a trial. They blame others and circumstances for their problems, grumbling and complaining and not taking responsibility for what happens in their lives and relationships. They begrudge others their success, happiness or good fortune. They are rarely pleased or satisfied, and more often than not they refuse to admit to improvements, preferring to see themselves as victims. Willow restores a positive mental outlook and optimism about life, allowing people to forgive and forget past injustices. No longer victims they can enjoy life and attract friends and positive conditions into their lives.

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