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Ego Less I Formula
Ego Less I is the first of two formulas to help build a bridge that integrates the higher self with the ego. Unresolved dilemmas create a false identity, interfering with the ability to connect with and act from the divine nature. Facades and pretense of the insecure personality react to other people's games, ploys and issues, generating confusion and misunderstanding in relationships and situations. Fears, anxiety, guilt, shame, anger, mistrust and hostile projection all fuel the false self's defense system, while it tries to protect its hurt, sensitive areas. The Ego Less I formula assists the resolution of these painful emotions and insecurities, helping to release and unlayer them step by step. It provides crystal clear objectivity to surrender and heal these in a calm, detached manner. The strengths of the greater self: courage, acceptance, self-esteem, forgiveness, trust, and loving inclusion of others, increase and help dispel the need of the ego to go on the defensive. Instead it can relinquish to authenticity. The spiritual qualities begin to radiate more and more: peace, love, happiness, kindness, self-worth, and embracing others, while being compassionate and non reactive in the face of others' pain, masks and uncertainties. What a relief, when the ego and higher self are able to come together and work for the same goal of illumination. It's highly recommended to go on to the second formula Ego Less II once finished with this first one.
Ingredients: Chiastolite, Natrolite, Peony, Tree Anemone, Larkspur, Garlic, Oregon Grape, Pine, Borage, Ajoite, Sagebrush

Ego Less I1 Formula
Ego Less II continues the work of Ego Less I to strengthen the bridge between the higher self and personality, by clearing the fear, anxiety, guilt, anger, masks, reactivity and projection of the hurt ego. A more authentic self is born. Crystal clear objectivity, courage, acceptance, self-esteem, trust and forgiveness continue to improve. Now deeper cleansing occurs of emotional debris associated with tears and other more deeply hidden issues, that need to be processed layer by layer. Beneath is the sweet core, the divine nature. Clarity and positive emotional outlook increase. The ego further cooperates with the greater self. Emotional confusion and personal belief systems are set aside to clearly channel spiritual information and inner guidance. Wisdom, love and harmony prevail. Egoistic concerns dissipate as the ability to stay with higher states of consciousness grows. Do yourself a big favor and take Ego Less I and Ego Less II sequentially. They work well with Presence, Thanksgiving, or Lucid Perception, and also as a precursor, for Rainbow Body.
Ingredients: Chistolite, Natrolite, Peony, Tree Anemone, Larkspur, Garlic, Onion, Oregon Grape, Pine, Borage, Ajoite, Sagebursh, Liveforever, Pink Dombeya, Madrone

Forgiveness Formula
Do yourself a favor, and forgive yourself and others! This formula eases a load of stress from the emotions, mental outlook and body. Guilt and shame over mistakes and shortcomings as well as being too hard on oneself turns into self-acceptance, self-forgiveness and joy. Resentment, feeling bitter, complaining, blaming or criticizing others shifts into forgiveness and acceptance. One sees through people’s problems and defenses to truly enjoy and appreciate the goodness that is there. What a relief. What an uplift. What a heart opener.

Hummingbird SageSelf-Esteem and Self-Acceptance in Emotional Cleansing
Hummingbird Sage is a wonderful aid for the emotional cleansing process. It helps to balance and spiritualize the emotions while building and maintaining self-esteem and self-acceptance. It relieves the guilt and shame often experienced while facing and releasing painful emotions. Joy, humor, and uplifted feelings emerge. This is very beneficial for psychotherapy and for children who have experienced emotional trauma.

HyssopResolving Guilt
Hyssop helps to resolve the guilt associated with mistakes or wrongdoing. It’s different from Pine, which works for people who relentlessly focus on their mistakes and shortcomings, even though they’re actually doing a good job. Hyssop helps those who hold onto guilt about their past actions rather than face and deal with the changes they need to make. This essence helps people honestly confront their actions and make positive shifts in their personalities. It’s useful with prison reform, teenagers, children, and anyone feeling guilt-ridden over past errors.

Joshua TreeBreak Free of Family & Cultural Patterns/True Self-Identity
Joshua Tree helps people break free from the dysfunction of family, generational, religious or cultural patterns, such as alcoholism, addiction, gambling, depression, violence, rigid beliefs or hereditary illnesses. This also includes the loss of their individual identity or freedom because of lack of insight regarding these familial and cultural influences. This flower essence helps to establish a true self-identity filled with courage and inner strength as well as being able to express a vibrant healthy individuality, beyond family and cultural conditioning. With this new freedom, people are able to gain more compassion and a better understanding about their history, heritage, and familial and cultural roots. Works well with Pineapple Lily.

PineFor guilt and self-reproach
Pine helps those who suffer from guilt and self-reproach regarding their mistakes or shortcomings. Such people are humble and apologetic, and they obsessively condemn themselves, becoming quite despondent, as a result. No matter what they do or how well they perform, they are never satisfied but feel that they should have done better. They even blame themselves for the mistakes of others and for what goes wrong.
Pine improves self-esteem and self-acceptance. It helps people acknowledge and focus on their good points and successes.

Pink Monkeyflower - Courage to Express Feelings
All the monkeyflowers (the genus Mimulus) work with fear while the color of their blooms allude to which kind. Dr Bach's Mimulus is yellow and gives courage and confidence to overcome mental fears. Pink Monkeyflower is for fear of feeling vulnerable to, or of being rejected for, showing or expressing one's emotions. Culturally men are often conditioned to not reveal how they feel, for fear of being ridiculed or accused of being weak. Past abuse or trauma can set up people, regardless of gender, to hide their emotional pain. And then too, people will typically hide their feelings of shame, guilt or unworthiness. At times, people put on a tough exterior to mask these fears. This essence gives courage and confidence to be emotionally honest and take emotional risks with others. It relieves the internal pressure that can come from holding back one's real feelings. People come to realize the strength there is in expressing their feelings in appropriate ways and situations.